As a mom, you're juggling countless responsibilities. Sex might not even crack your top three priorities. If your intimate life needs a boost, these tips—drawn from my own experience—can help.
I'm single right now, but sex remains a vital part of my life. It energizes me, enhances my sense of femininity, and supports my work and parenting. For the past six months, I've been in a consistent friends-with-benefits arrangement, syncing schedules for a few nights a week and even sneaking daytime rendezvous. Here's how I keep my sex life exciting and fulfilling.
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Keeping your sex life vibrant takes effort—though it's worth it. (Or let it slide, if that's your choice 😉.)
Surprise your partner. Clear the kids' toys from the bedroom, scatter rose petals leading to the bed, light candles, add massage oil, queue up sensual music, and pour a glass of wine or champagne. Consider introducing a toy or two. Recreate that movie magic. Prioritize it: tuck the kids in early, skip some sleep if needed, and power through with coffee tomorrow—you'll feel recharged anyway.
Tired of the usual missionary or cowgirl? Shake up your routine. If experimentation faded over time, now's the moment to revive it.
Tip: Try a position card game for fresh ideas. Other fun options include sex toys, lingerie, or role-playing. Watching ethical porn together can spark creativity too.
Ditch the bedtime bedroom routine—it's predictable. Experiment in the shower, on the kitchen table, a restaurant restroom, the washing machine, or during daytime steals. Variety keeps things thrilling for busy parents 😉.
Daytime sexting builds anticipation like nothing else. Tease with 'Can't wait to see you' or 'Last night was incredible'—or get bolder. New to it after years of logistics texts? Start small, maybe with a flirty shower selfie (double-check the recipient!).
Be fully present: relish kisses, touches, and intimacy. Banish distractions. Daydream about it during the day—sexting helps build excitement toward your next encounter.
These tips work wonders. For the ultimate hack, check Durex's smartphone-powered solution to elevate your sex life even further!
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