While the Dutch lockdown has been milder than in many other countries, it's still challenging for everyone. We Dutch thrive on structure and routine, and with those disrupted, we're navigating uncharted territory. Quarantine pitfalls are everywhere, waiting to trip us up.
How do you maintain discipline without a fixed office schedule? And what about the kids facing the same upheaval? Life flips upside down, and before long, you might find yourself sipping wine in your dressing gown.
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The COVID-19 crisis is deadly serious. Here in Brabant, nearly everyone knows someone affected, even indirectly, who has lost their life to this devastating illness. We all have loved ones we can't visit, and that pain is real. Amid the tears, we need moments of levity too. These relatable quarantine pitfalls might hit close to home—you've probably encountered a few already!
We pride ourselves on being free-spirited, but truth be told, us Dutch love order and structure. Lockdown has turned that upside down. In this so-called 'intelligent lockdown,' several traps await. They're not catastrophic, but they can lead to reaching for that second bottle of wine.
If essential workers must keep going, why are hairdressers closed, Mr. Rutte? My hair's a mess—no stylist in sight, and the motivation to wash it is fading fast.
Watch out! It's easy to skip the bra, let hair get greasy, and lounge all day since no one's watching. But it's bad for your family (the smell builds up) and your self-esteem. Prioritize me-time: enjoy a home spa session. Enlist your partner for a massage, style wild hair with bands or braids. Dress up in nice clothes or lingerie—it boosts your mood, even if unseen.
Even with hobbies, boredom creeps in eventually. Counter it by starting something new! Here's inspiration:
For personal recharge:
Let's be clear: we adore our children. But reopening schools in May will be a relief! Shoutout to teachers—they deserve that raise. Homeschooling highlights their tough job.
Kids around 24/7 brings pitfalls. Early on, you're on it, but weeks of 'Mama!' make you crave a soundproof hideout. You loosen up, overlook messes. Beware: post-crisis, you'll have wild monsters on your hands. Instead, pay them to wash the car and treat yourself to quarantine wine (cue next pitfall).
If you're still working occasionally like me, the sunny outdoors screams summer vacation—everyone else lounging by French campsites. No work? Poolside dreams intensify, but we're stuck with garden or balcony.
While shelves empty for TP and potatoes, booze flows freely. Holiday vibes spark early drinks, extending into evening sun. Resist! Uncovered hair and wine bottles aren't the answer. A crisp Chardonnay softens the crisis, but save some for future friend nights. Hangovers are the last thing you need now.
Whether family-full home, remote work, or essential shifts, quarantine disrupts rhythms. Procrastination hits: 'Not today.' Especially post-Chardonnay. Creatives? Inspiration vanishes amid cat videos and online shopping.
Embrace your inner Southern European vibe briefly, but remember: life marches on. Underpants need washing, work awaits. Maybe pen a blog—like this one. Cheers to navigating the Chardonnay crisis!